There are so many wedding registry options these days that it can be overwhelming to know where to even begin! Sometimes it’s clear where a couple should register – Enjoy the outdoors? Register at REI. Love handmade ceramics? Register at Emilia Ceramics. Can’t get enough of traveling? Try one of the many honeymoon registries that allows your guests to help you take the trip of your dreams.
I’ve dealt with lots of wedding registries over the years and often the same questions come up again and again. Trying to figure out where to register? Here’s some time-tested advice to get you started.
1. Think about what you like and what you need. These days, many people have already lived on their own as adults when they get married, so they already own essentials like sheets, towels, and kitchen equipment. Talk with your partner about what you both like and what you’d like to upgrade. Perhaps this is the time to get matching pots and pans or luggage, ask for those ginger jars from Talavera Vazquez you’ve been coveting, or even some camping equipment for your favorite weekend activity. It can also be helpful to make a short list of what you don’t want to help you narrow down the possibilities of where you want to register.
2. Diversify your registries. Have a mix of big box stores and smaller, local spots. Many retailers have online registries, making it easy to manage your list and keep track of what’s been purchased. By having a range of options, your guests can shop where they feel most comfortable, whether that’s online or in-person.
3. Have at least one wedding registry. People want to help you celebrate, so help guide them to what’s most fitting for you. With no registry at all, it’s likely you’ll end up with four toasters (none of which you like) and no receipts, making exchanging a nightmare. Trust me on this one… people will buy you gifts. The only question is, will you like them?
4. Stop at five wedding registries. Too many registries quickly gets overwhelming for both you and your guests. Some people like sites like myregistry.com that allow you to build a registry from any store you choose, keeping everything in one spot. Armed with the list of what you’d like to receive and where you like to shop, keep things simple by figuring out where the best fit will be, then register there.
5. Register for a wide range of items and prices. This allows your friends and family to have a chance to give in whatever amount they like. Many people like to build a gift out of several less expensive items, like a Talavera Vazquez butter dish and trivet, while others will splurge for one statement piece like a full set of luggage. Bonus for after the wedding: many places offer a completion discount if you buy items yourself.
Remember: Be yourselves! Don’t register for china just because it’s traditional or copper-bottom pots if you don’t like to cook. The best registry offers a reflection of the couple’s personality instead of a standard list of bed linens, knives, silver, and decorative ware. Avoid registering at a store you dislike because you’ll have to deal with them for a long period of time.
Where do you recommend registering for a wedding? Leave a comment below and let us know.
Wedding gift image courtesy of messycupcakes.